How do you tell a friend that you aren’t…

How do you tell a friend that you aren’t comfortable with them telling others you’re sexuality because you be in that closet. Idk i live in a country where there is only one legal sexuality and i am not the most straight seeming person but at the same time im still not comfortable with her outting me to other people. I’m sorry if this is alot i just wanted to ask anonymously on a gay acc and you ticked all the boxes

its your right to decide who you’re out to or not! let your friend know that you need them to let you take the lead on that and help protect your identity. im sure they’ll get it! your comfort is what comes first. its your identity and your decision.